How To Get Talking About The Infidelity

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A major road block for many couples recovering from infidelity is talking about the infidelity. Frequently one (the betrayed) spouse needs to talk about the infidelity. The cheating spouse says, “No. It’s over. Let’s not drag up the past. Let’s move on.”     I can’t tell you how many times cheating victims bring up this issue. It’s HUGE. One… Read more »

Extra-Marital Affair And Your Self Esteem

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Hello, Nothing tears at your self esteem and sense of well being more than an extra-marital affair. The question is often posed by someone in the midst of a painful relationship upheaval: “What did I do wrong?” You assume you failed. You ask yourself in the middle of the night, “What could I have done differently? If only I would… Read more »

The Cheating Spouse Has To Make A Sincere Apology

How do you know if your spouse  is truly sorry for the extra-marital affair? Being and relating being truly sorry is as difficult to communicate as well as being difficult to receive. However, it one of the most important first steps to post affair recovery. And, marriage restoration. Frequently, in coaching sessions, professional marriage counselors have heard the betrayed spouse wanting and… Read more »

Extra-Marital Affair Surviving The Pain

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How to Survive The Extra-Marital Affair When You’re in Pain I don’t want to go into detail regarding the fact that you feel pain. YOU FEEL the PAIN! It is a given. It is real. It consumes your days and destroys sleep at night. Hands down, the discovery of infidelity rocks you and your marriage to the very core.  Professionals… Read more »