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The Effects Of Infidelity On Your Self Esteem

Nothing tears at your self esteem and sense of well being more than an infidelity. The question is often posed by someone in the midst of a painful marriage upheaval: “What did I do wrong?” You assume you failed. You ask yourself in the middle of the night, “What could I have done differently? If only I would have paid more attention,… Read more »

Extra-Marital Affair Excuses

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Hi there. Common Excuses For The Extra-Marital Affair. I was talking to a friend recently whose husband had cheated on her. Through her tears and frustration, she said something that stung me. She said that when she found out, her husband turned things around and blamed her. Yup, you read that correctly. After he had cheated, he had actually blamed… Read more »

21 Steps To Surviving An Extra-Marital Affair.

Hello, I have found an amazing Infidelity Support Group on Facebook, in which members join to both heal themselves and help others heal. It’s truly a remarkable group of people. From time to time I stumble upon a post that really resonates with me. This happened the other day, so I asked my group member for permission to share his… Read more »

How To Get Talking About The Infidelity

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A major road block for many couples recovering from infidelity is talking about the infidelity. Frequently one (the betrayed) spouse needs to talk about the infidelity. The cheating spouse says, “No. It’s over. Let’s not drag up the past. Let’s move on.”     I can’t tell you how many times cheating victims bring up this issue. It’s HUGE. One… Read more »